I WRITE YOU, WHAT IS THE SAME PAIN? Women on dating sites tortured by inadequacies

One of my first experiences in correspondence and dating on the Internet was this: as a schoolgirl, I placed an ad on a linguistics forum. Something like “I want to learn Finnish, I’m happy to meet a guy from Finland”. Immediately came three letters. Two were from African students and one from an elderly Pakistani living in Finland. In the photo he was without clothes ...

"I am at a military base near Kirkuk"
A couple of years ago I received a small part-time job: translation of questionnaires for a dating site, small editing and placement. The site was innovative in a certain sense: for a small amount of money, it contained an amazingly useful service that could be called outrageous and chauvinist if desired: people were asked to limit the list of countries from which they would like to receive SOS signals from afflicted men.It was rational, because if you live, for example, in Minsk and you are looking only for real meetings, why the fuck are you, say, Iraq? Put a tick "Do not accept messages from Afghanistan, Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, Turkey, India."
To support the site I was given the admin base account. If desired, the admin could also write. The first month my mailbox was empty, since I also set these parameters, and in the second, the messages fell down. Hindus and Pakistanis began to write through a proxy server, or simply put the location at the point ”- Moscow, Russia. Older Australians and Americans also came in ... Once I received a letter that began with the words “I am in the middle of the desert, at the American military base near Kirkuk. I really want to meet you. ” The question is - why do you need to meet me and spend my time? Regardless of which social network you have registered with, on Facebook, in contact or on a dating site, any woman from 13 to 90 years will have a flood of letters from India and Pakistan that are stinky like the slums of Calcutta. Just a blockage of stupid carbon copies of how it is "beautiful, like a deity that set foot on the ground."The flow increases by about three, if you are a pale blonde with light eyes.
“If you travel in our village - come on ...”
Women of all ages note an amazing amount of inadequacy. I do not understand very well what a 53-year-old Jew from Haifa is counting on, sending “hello, how are you” written in Hebrew (!) In Hebrew letters (!) To Russian and Ukrainian women, 20-30 years old, along with their phone number in Israel What will they do with it and how to respond? It’s another thing to get “I'm a little old for such a beauty like you, but you caught my attention and I could not write. In a couple of days I will be with you in Kiev / Moscow. I invite you to sit in a cafe, I will be immensely happy to receive your answer. Itzik / Izrael Solomonovich / Shlomo, etc. Is it worth explaining what to write in English (or Russian), but not in Hebrew! How can you not understand such banal things? Well, do not speak Ukrainian in Hebrew! You should not write “If you will be with us, call me,” if you are a 50-year-old Jew, and she is a 20-year-old beauty from Donetsk. First of all, if she finds herself there herself, such arrogant old men will come running without you. And secondly, she will not go to Israel or the Indian village in order to only see you so beautiful and have a chance to meet.Moreover, among those who live and recently moved to Israel, not everyone knows the language well. Almost every fourth citizen of the country has the first Russian, and in any case he speaks better on it ...
I want Larisa Ivanovna!
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“Who just didn't write to me! As always, the packs of guest hikers who immediately asked about my living conditions, the Turks and the inhabitants of the mountain villages (I understand that you cannot afford renting a Moscow apartment, but I will definitely not have your village). One speaker even started talking about the fact that he was stealing me. I turn to the most curious dialogue of all that I had, because I laughed half a day over him. African writes me, of course, about how beautiful I am. I find time to answer this “tired sun”: “Sorry, but I'm looking for a different type. I am interested in Japanese culture. ” At this adequate man had to calm down and start scribbling others. He asks: “Why are you looking for a Japanese, and not an African?” Indeed, and what's the difference !? I answer honestly and truthfully that Africans are not my type. On this an adequate person had to disappear, and not waste either mine or my time.And he began to make trouble and write: “You are a disgusting racist!”
Because an ordinary man, talking, it is worth patience, because before him any woman was attacked by crowds inadequate. And then, one, having met her in a cafe, started shouting that she was “Predator, came only to devour and draws out loot” because he paid for her cup of tea and a tiny cake. Another first wrote about work in research institutes and microbiology, and then immediately sent a photo without portholes and asked “Does your size suit you?” The third wrote a declaration of love for two months, and then it turned out that he was in prison, and in the photo - Brad Pitt in his youth, etc.

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